Monday, April 09, 2007
There's a time-honored saying that goes something like this: "Friends are friends, pals are pals, and buddies sleep together." I'm not quite sure what it means, but I think this adage is mainly poking fun at those who use euphemisms to describe friendships that are, shall we say, more than platonic. I'm talking about "kissing buddies" (the word kissing is usually replaced by the F word -- for F*cking Buddies -- also known as "friends with benefits).
Increasing trend towards Friends with Benefits relationship amongst Generation X is replacing the traditional boyfriend girlfriend relationship. This replacement provides less commitment, "strings" and ties, although the levels of emotion remain the same.
FF are friends, or maybe only acquaintances, who have a spoken or an unspoken agreement to have sex occasionally, without ever pursuing a romantic relationship. This term is a fairly new one, emerging from popular culture in the past 20 years or so.
As men and women become increasingly free to indulge in physical relationships with relatively fewer consequences (let's give it up for birth control!), sex is now more casual than ever.
As a result, some friends decide to take it to the next level, just for fun, without all the trappings of an actual relationship. Being simply FF is definitely easier at first, but are the negatives that come with it worth the promise of casual sex?
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mike, mikhael, ency, pabs, pao, ion, man, manayon that is how my friends usually call me...
I'm a person who usually gets misunderstood by a lot of people. You might think that you already know me but for real.. it's just all lies.
I'm vain.. super vain haha, you could define the word vain in me. I hate backstabbers, fakers, people who pretend to be someone else to fit in, social climbers and elite people. I get serious sometimes, but most of the time I play around coz' I'm still a kid. Often, I don't take jokes as jokes and take them seriously. Weird? I can probably say that I am also moody at times. I'm cool with everything just as long as we have some kind of connection. I'm somewhat a martyr too. So, usually it's hard for me to turn down on something or someone except if it's really out of my league. I value my friends as much as I value my family. That's how important my friends are to me. Whenever I get pissed, I just shut up. I don't talk at all. It's up to you to figure what's happening to me. And if I don't like the feeling of the things that are happening around me, you'll notice it easily. :)